I need to swap out the wheels on my car. I think I know better than to read the manual to, say, understand how much torque I should apply to each bolt, or what pattern I should use when tightening the bolts. Or, I read the manual but decide it’s too hard to understand, and I don’t ask for help in clearing up some of the grey areas.
I change the wheels anyway. In the end, it looks right. They roll. Meh. All good.
Then the wheels fall off.
There is absolutely no one to blame for any of that but me.
In my view, I see no difference here.